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I’m a little down right now and can’t seem to spring out of it. Friday night a friend and I had a misunderstanding caused by the way we wrote some email. We seem to have made it worse by both trying to prove how right we each were. And now we’ve been trying to not think about it by staying busy with work, perhaps too busy. I know I hurt him and he hurt me as well. Sometimes it might be nice to just be able to jump in some kind of time machine and return to an earlier time. It’s possible to use Restore to take a computer back to a better time. Why not people?

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For the past few days, I’ve been reading an excellent book by Paul Rogat Loeb,  Soul of a Citizen: Living with Conviction in a Cynical Time. It looks like I have an older copy because in searching for the Amazon webpage, I found the subtitle is now “Living with Conviction in Challenging Times.” Interesting.

Several years ago my youngest daughter gave me one of Loeb’s other books, The Impossible Will Take a Little While: A Citizen’s Guide to Hope in a Time of Fear. The title was more prophetic than I believe she knew at the time.

 

However, this blog entry won’t be any kind of book review. No, I found two very meaningful quotes in Soul of a Citizen that I’d like to share. The first is from one of my favorite authors, Catholic theologian Henri Nouwen: “To forgive another person from the heart is an act of liberation. We set that person free from the negative bonds that exist between us. We say, ‘I no longer hold offense against you.’ But there is more. We also free ourselves from the burden of being the ‘offended one.’ The great temptation is to cling in anger to our enemies and then define ourselves as being offended and wounded by them. Forgiveness, therefore, liberates not only the other but also ourselves. It is the way to freedom of the children of God.”

 

The second quote is from Doris Donnelly: “Without forgiveness, hurts grow unchecked and we recycle failures, resentments, bitterness, and mistrust in our lives. With forgiveness, hurts are acknowledged and healed, and we are able to break a mindless cycle of retaliation by saying that the decisions of human life, even when they turn out badly are not beyond repair.”

 

Strong stuff – and particularly meaningful for me at this time.

 

 

 

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